Tuesday, March 25, 2014

MY CONNECTIONS TO PLAY

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Two Quotes I like Pertaining to Play:

"Play energizes us and enlivens us. It eases our burdens. It renews our natural sense of optimism and opens us up to new possibilities".

--Stuart Brown, MD, Contemporary American psychiatrist


"Play is our brain's favorite way of learning".

--Diane Ackerman, Contemporary American author

 


Growing up was different for me but similar to many others. Since my sister and I are ten years apart, I used my imagination continuously. From living in the country, I played with my cats and dogs. I had a wagon that I would pull my animals and dolls in all the time. I had a bike, so I rode that a lot. I even climbed trees. My parents would buy me all types of toys. I had a Nintendo, Barbie dolls and all the items that went along with playing with my Barbie (Ken, clothes, house and the car). So, I never wanted for anything. When I was bored with playing by myself, I went over my friend’s house. She lived across the branch, which was not big to jump over. We rode our bikes and even ventured out into the woods. We acted like we were searching for certain things. It was so fun. I miss those days. Sometimes, my grandma (while she was living) would play checkers with me. I miss her. We ate fruit together and she would tell me stories.

The way children play today is so different because they really do not want to go outside. They like staying in the house and play their electronics all day –especially on the weekends. They receive bikes on Christmas and gave sad because it was not the new game for their game systems. They do not know the joy of using their imaginations like we had to do back in the day. I have to get my children excited to go outside or I take them to the park, where they have no chose but to run around and play.

The role of play must be incorporated into a child’s life to keep them from growing up too fast. Childhood passes so fast and they must learn to embrace it, while they are still young. The school systems seem to be run by adults, who have lost their enjoyment of play or they never knew the joy of playing when they were children. It is all about getting the high scores and tiring out a child’s brain. Teachers must begin coming up with games to incorporate into their lesson plans to make learning fun for their class.


If was to put myself into a 4 or 5 year old life: 

If I was five years of age, I would be outside in my yard. It is a country type setting. My neighbor and I are running around the yard, playing with kites. It is kind of windy but pleasant. We decided to cook for our babies, but really it is only dirt and water.  Basically, it is mud-pies that we are “cooking” and decided to call them cookies and cakes. We are getting so dirty but we are having so much fun. My friend loves playing with my two puppies. She puts them in my baby stroller and pushes them all around the yard. They are enjoying it and one even went to sleep. We continued playing and running freely for hours. Great day! My mom would be a resource, just to be there making sure that we were okay (protection).
 

 

 
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Thursday, March 13, 2014

Class 6161: Wk 2: RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION



Relationship Reflection

The relationships that I have gained have kept me going for so many years. Of course, having relationships with others, keep you sane. Life throws so much at you that having someone to talk to allows you to not bottle it up –which is not good. Relationships are the most important commodity that anyone can gain throughout their life. Without them, what would you be or what would you have but loneliness.

Of course, my parents were the first relationships that I experienced, along with my sister that I am happy to have had in my life. They have always been supportive of me and always were there to lend an ear, especially my dad, and for that, I am tremendously grateful. Through my early school years, I gained friends, which we still are friends to this day. Some were only in my life for a little while but I am grateful to had experienced some good moments with them. I gained new friends, after I met my husbancd in 1993 and after we got married in 2002. In addition, I gained a whole family, even before my husband and I got married so long ago. We all have a great time. Laughing is a wonderful tool that heals a lot. My relationships with my children are great. I have lost one of my children (a boy and he was four when he passed), it was my wonderful family, and friends that helped us all get through the ordeal. Co-Workers at the time also helped and showed that they cared enough –which was great. I have even enjoyed talking to the people in my Walden classes –even if electronically. Meeting new people is always a great thing.

Every relationship is different and some are difficult to keep but that comes with understanding everyone personality and respecting it. Even if time goes by and you all do not speak, you both know that it is just understood that you still care no matter how long it has been since you both last spoke to one another. I will send a text, email, or call to let everyone that I have not forgotten them and that I still think about them. I keep the door open and I let them know that I am there for them –if I am needed at any time. I even let my new peers at Walden know my contact information. I never want to seem as if I am above helping others. In addition,  I like treating people how I want to be treated at all times.

My experiences with everyone that I have come into contact with, old and new, helps me to continue to want to help others –which is why being a teacher is great. Through my relationships, I have learned how to support others, listen carefully, and encourage those who feel discouraged at any time. My doors are always open. These are great tools to have when working with the staff and the students. I could name many others. Establishing positive relationships with others always are the same way that you will have to attempt to gain positive relationships with the parents and the students.